Heartbreak For Harry And William. With Heavy Hearts, We Announce The Passing
The royal family and those who knew him are mourning the loss of Lord Robert Fellowes, uncle to Princes Harry and William. Lord Robert, who passed away at the age of 82, was a stalwart figure within the British monarchy, serving as the private secretary to the late Queen Elizabeth II from 1990 to 1999. His tenure spanned a tumultuous period in the royal family’s history, making him a key player in navigating the complexities of royal life.
Born at Sandringham House in Norfolk in 1941, Lord Robert’s life was intertwined with the royal family from the very beginning. His birthplace, a royal residence, marked the start of a life dedicated to public service. Despite the challenges of growing up during the Second World War, Lord Robert excelled in his education, attending the prestigious Eton College. His early career saw him serving with the Scots Guards on a short-term commission in 1960, showcasing his dedication to duty from a young age.
In 1963, Lord Robert transitioned to the banking sector, working for Allen Harvey and Ross Ltd., a company specializing in discount brokerage and banking. However, his path would soon lead him back to the heart of the British monarchy. In 1977, he was appointed as an Assistant Private Secretary in the Royal Household, beginning a career that would span two decades and see him rise to the role of Private Secretary to the Queen.
A Steady Hand During Royal Turmoil
Lord Robert’s role as Private Secretary coincided with one of the most challenging periods in modern royal history, often referred to as the “annus horribilis” of 1992. This year was marked by a series of crises within the royal family: Prince Charles’s separation from Princess Diana, Prince Andrew’s separation from Sarah Ferguson, Princess Anne’s divorce, and the devastating fire at Windsor Castle. Lord Robert’s steady hand and diplomatic skills were crucial in guiding the Queen and the royal family through these difficult times.
Despite the public scrutiny and the strain on the monarchy, Lord Robert managed the internal affairs of the Royal Household with discretion and professionalism. He was a trusted advisor to the Queen, helping to navigate the complex and often treacherous waters of royal duties and public expectations.
Personal Life and Legacy
In 1978, Lord Robert married Lady Jane Fellowes, the sister of the late Princess Diana, at Westminster Abbey. Their wedding was a significant event, attended by many members of the royal family, including Diana herself, who served as a bridesmaid. The couple had three children: Eleanor Ruth Fellowes, Alexander Robert Fellowes, and Laura Jane Fellowes. Their family life, while closely linked to the monarchy, was relatively private, allowing them to raise their children away from the intense spotlight often associated with royal connections.
The tragic death of Princess Diana in 1997 was a moment of profound sorrow for Lord Robert. Speaking to The Telegraph, he reflected on his fondness for his sister-in-law, describing...