When Phil Donahue met Marlo Thomas, he was divorced with five children, 4 of whom lived with him, while she was a single woman living contentedly on her own with two dogs and no kids.

Marlo Thomas was quite content to live as a single woman and against marriage when she met and fell in love with Phil Donahue. The couple has been together for almost five decades and has faced difficult trials that enhanced their relationship.

In Marlo Thomas and Phil Donahue’s book, “What Makes a Marriage Last: 40 Celebrated Couples Share with Us the Secrets,” the couple opened up about their marriage. Thomas revealed in the memoir that as a young girl, she wanted nothing to do with the institution of marriage.

The reason was that she didn’t see marriage as having enough room to accommodate her. She was so against it that she always had a cheeky response when the discussion came up.

Thomas would say things like marriage was the same as living with your jailer and having to please them. The other retort she made against the institution was equally harsh, with her stating:

“Marriage is like a vacuum cleaner: you stick it to your ear, and it sucks out all your energy and ambition.”

Yielding to Marriage and Facing Obstacles
According to their book, Donahue met Thomas once before, and the second time they met was in 1977 in Chicago. When the meeting happened, the television show host was single and raising four boys alone.

His fifth child, his daughter, lived with his ex-wife. When he met Thomas, “The Phil Donahue Show” host was getting used to social events with a woman who was not his wife.

He and Thomas went out on a dinner date the following night and dated for three years before they married in 1980! The couple’s wedding celebration was a small gathering with their families, constituting 35 people.

Thomas’s relatives couldn’t believe it when she got married. One person she had an unspoken pact with was Gloria, who was happy for her when she returned from her honeymoon.

Gloria and someone else threw Donahue’s wife a bridal shower. The pair also made small posters with all the negative things Marlo had said about marriage; these were hilariously hung up around the room!

Thomas was shocked to see the notes put together and figured it was “no wonder” she never wanted to marry! However, the person who was most surprised about her marriage was her mother, who kept asking Donahue at the wedding:

“How did you get her to do this?”

On the other hand, Thomas’s father was just happy she’d found a good man and was settling down. During Donahue and Thomas’s flight to Greece, he got up to use the bathroom, and a woman sitting across from them noticed the bride’s ring.

The woman asked if Thomas was who she was and questioned if the actress had gotten married. The star blushed and confirmed that her wedding day had been the day before, and the stranger asked:

“Why? I am so disappointed. Why would you get married?”

Thomas was stunned...